Claire in the white dress.
Us cutting the cake.
Aaron giving his speech.
Our families dancing.
But the first one I framed wasn’t any of those.
It was a picture taken immediately after the ceremony.
Claire is still wearing Dad’s suit.
I’m holding her around the waist.
The jacket is too large. The pants are bunched at her ankles.
Her hair looks beautiful, which somehow makes the suit look even more ridiculous.
And we’re both laughing.
You can see the folded cuff in the picture.
You can’t read the writing.
But I know it’s there.
“Richard’s Wedding Suit.”
And beneath it, stitched by the woman I married: “Danny.”
I had spent the entire engagement thinking about all the ways my father was going to miss my wedding.
I never once imagined that, because of Claire, a piece of him would walk down the aisle before she did.
I got the traditional wedding too.